K-Fever, am sure you had a Top billing wedding. Please post your pics so that we can take some good tips from you.
@ Makoti may God bless you for honouring him!!!
those bow-ties thou, makoti u look beautiful congratulations…
I love your colour coordination, your dress, your hubby’s outfit, the bridesmaid dresses and how they went together with the same hair styles and accessories. The groomsmen are also looking nice and simple. You could have left out, say picture 2,3,5,6 on page 1 and picture 8 and 10 on page 2 and used the space for your cake and decor. Its nice to see guests at the wedding, but please not at the cost of what we loooove to feed our eyes with.
there’s more pics of your brides maids more than yours….
Aa KFever maan a ko commente!
i cnt really see anything why ppl ba sa romele formal pics,decor,cake,rings not all confused pictures lyk ga ke tlhaloganye….n PLS PPL MUST STOP SENDING OTHER PEOPLES WEDDINGS HERE DATS Y RE KREYA DI PICS TSA GO TLHAKATLHAKANA SO!!!
Agree with you K-fever. perhaps it’s time the editor makes it stricter to send pictures through so that only the bride and groom can send. make some clever safety button, I dont know but I think their IT Technician can figure out how to guard against people just sending random pictures from their cell-phones and giving people bad feedback about their weddings.
Tjo K-fever wa bua tlhe! Maar atleast i know what you really expect in this blog. I’ve learned gore what is it that you really need to see.I ‘ll give you that once my time has come.
Its possible that the actual weds do not have digital photos and if they do they still do not have time to load them and the once that we are seeing are from friends who took with their digi cams or phones!!
So it would take a while to see the ones from a profi!!
After all it was an ok wedding but the colour combi does not do for me!
Wouldn’t it be considerate for whoever is interested in loading pictures to ask the newly weds first? or better yet, to show them the kind of pictures they intend to upload here? Be it as it may, the bottom line is that our comments will be directed to the newly weds as we would assume that they uploaded or had a say in the uploading of pictures. As you know, most of the comments here are very hurtful and it pains me to think that sometimes we hurt the wrong people who either have better pictures of the wedding but did not even know that someone was uploadin g their wedding here.
Eishthe colour-combo, ja neh fashion sometimes is best left with the David Tlale’s…Just saying
Khumo you are absolutely correct!
One should let the couple know that they are putting on photos. Nna for one I would have a big problem if someone just loads them without letting me know, I would take it very personal!!
On the other hand maybe they were too happy for their friend/cousin/whatever and they want to share with the whole wide world…
- Comments that are being put up here, shouldn’t be taken “too” serious,(they should be lessons to the ones who are to get married) they are just comments and some people take them personal.
- I would recommend this blog to anybody who is to get married…
- Those who are still to get married should learn from those mistakes seen here or better of, ask for advice….
- When people are laughing at the pics they do not mean to hurt anyone the are just expressing their feelings…
- The day is long gone so getting yourself worked up by people you don’t even “know” and being hurt wouldn’t change anything let alone your wedding day!!!
- People should comment further and in which ever way they want!!
- If its the newly weds themselves who out up the photos, then they should also comment and rectify the people who are commenting nasty, like why they choose certain colours or certain themes…and let other know the mistakes they did so that other people could learn…
In that way everyone would be happy and this blog would serve a better purpose!!
couldnt have said it better…maybe coz ga se nna segafi sa blog who wrote this then ppl will take it seriously.
big up…can we pls have a like button on the blog pls.
Makoti you look lovely, bridesmaid dresses r tops + their shoes and hairdo, grooms men le bona ba sharp but it seems as if they stole your moment to shine. We are also missing the deco, cake and rings. Wedding photos must be about the two of you(You and your hubby) the rest if ba tsweletse ke bonus. Enjoy your wedding and God bless you
Nice gown makoti and thats it…
Ke sure gore the pictures were taken and send by Abashante in picture 2 and 5. Professional photographers can focus and picture number 2 on page 1, with unsightly papers on the door and 4 and 6 on page 2, with people walking by in the background will not be captured like that.
i thought so too but ne ke tshaba go bua…
O tshaba eng?K-fever, you are not supposed to be scared…here everyone is free to say what they want!
wat if ke abashante cos wa lwala den da bloggers ba ba emotional e be ba re nna ke wicked n ke lefetwa….lol *evil laugh*
that is one killer gown makoti, and i liked the bridesmaid dresses and the same hair do’s they nice, would have loved to see the deco and the cake
i love the gown!!
Love your Dress Sisi
what a nice wedding girlfriend god please you an your husband. All the blessing to Zimba an sisi
yesss your dress is breathtaking makoti and it suits u very well. pls post the decor so that we can comment
Beautiful,look to c more pics.mine r nt clear,can sum1 help me view,eish
Ok admin today its a very special day:its my 28th birthday now pls make my day n give me weddings dat will put the cherry on top of a wonderful birthday cake ne!!!!
Thanking you in advance!
Happy Belated my Friendo!
Happy Birthday K-fever.
lol thank you admin….
Well the wedding looked decent but the dude who is wearing the black attire with the blue bow tie.. i must say he look like a piece of art.
Hi guys! “My 1st comment on this blog”. I love this blog and it has been 3 yrs now following it. I love it for the same reasons that most of u if not all of u daz. Its the “free” wedding planner that 1 can ask for #wink#. I always read your comments, the likes of “Kay-fever, Trueteller and etc” jus to mention a few! I recently celebrated my 30th birthday in colab with my lobola and an intimate matrimonial ceremony in the presence of only family. We r celebrating our white wedding end of next year (2014) God willingly, so I dnt know if I shud upload my pics or not, but they do tell a story #I think#. So help a sister out should I or Not??
Admin y r my comments still being moderated???? Its been long #whew# Pls kindly do sumthin #str8Face#
Lena le jealous shame, this wedding was beautiful.
wena o tsena kae mo jealouseng ya rena?ga se ya gago moes!!!!
sa re foka o bona ba re tima manyalo moo!!!!
Voetsek!! I wonder if you are married, you always comment shit. You are like those people who always have something to say, cant you just shut up sometimes.
ke lefetwa le le bitter….n o fitlhe gae o tibelle mo spilling ge o fetsa o re voetsek on urslf!!!
Happy belated K-fever, still say your crazy comments, saved a lot of brides from embarrasment.
Unfortunately, the likes of Shaz, who just popped out of nowhere, ba tla ba strong.
Shaz, go take a chill pill, o phole ga gannyane, and spare us the drama le di tuntrums tse di tlang le that time of the month….even better take it out on your lovely hubby, o go nyaletse tsona.
Le gale congra to Mr and Mrs Zimba and remember to always invite God into everything you do.
Lmao……..ga go bofetwa bja nix moo. People are just saying the way they see things haoooooo
lol thnx bloggers for coming to my rescue ka bolaiwa hier so….
Hi please ditlhapa ke tsa eng? K fever was just saying her opinion and anyway re bagolobon this blog anyone is free to say anything he/she want. Please admin send more weddings kgale re lebeletse manyalo a tlheng. Send something new
Mara y o le bitter wena Shaz??? Mmalelapa ga go nnete e fetang eo. Comments tsa bo K-Fever vele hav saved a lot of brides from doing diserekisi, so wena Shaz dnt take anything personal, evry1 is entitled to his/her own opinion tog mahn, o tla tia skaaaat…….. This is a “blog”
haaaaaa u people r hush on each other, mara hheeee?
@Shaz Thanks for calling these unruly insensitive person called K-Fever to order, How can a person be so out of line day in and day out, she must really be bitter no person can be this rude really.
Anyhu back to Makoti you look beautiful, your dress is too gorgeous and your bridesmaid are just fab. Wish you a happily ever after with your hubby.
K-fever and those who supports you le re senyeditse by criticizing the newly wedds about their pictures, gona byanong we do not get the pictures anymore.You discouraged the others to uplaod their wedding pictures and share their happiness with us.Le sa etsa yalo good people.
Julia, relax my dear, its not wedding season, ke mariga, that is why manyalo a le skaars.
Ba seka tshaba go uploada coz of us. The thing is as long as they have enjoyed their wedding, that is what matters most. I think Mmalelapa o right, its cold and chilli now. We will probably start seeing new pics soon coz winter eya fela.
this blog is now becoming a bit out of hand in terms of comments. It reminds of a social site once called “toilet” and “mig33″ Is there no way you can restrict certain comments? it seems the focus is no longer on weddings and engaments now. People are attacking each other over other people’s pictures. Please admin, try to do something. I know and understand that everyone is entitled to their opinion but I think if such opinion is not related to the wedding picture, it should not be posted here.I mean, birthday wishes le matlhapa a makana? can’t we do that somewhere else?…facebook maybe? #Just a suggestion
Well again we have to go thru da same drama…ppl gettin emotional n wara wara…this is a blog those old bloggers would know that the minute they start censoring the comments then the blog becomes dull.Whatever we say would never change some1 happy day.it jst helps other people not to go thru the same route or actually help people get gud ideas to also make their days special….
The whole point of a blog is to have an opinion if so why cant people do it here?have you seen the crap and insults that are written on da news page?compared to that we wedding bloggers are saints.what about the comments on the baby section?people call other people’s children downright ugly and try following the wedding blog pics when they post them in the news page and you will hear metlholo e ba e ngwalang ka dis weddings.
The blog has actually helped many plan their weddings,it helped my mother plan her dream annivesary, its helping me plan my wedding and even people who blog sent in their weddings without many of us even knowing it.I think its about time people who come here with emotions actually put them aside.
funny thing is that the brides themselves dont get emotional over our comments but its emotional bloggers who actually do that.I can talk crap all I want I never swear at any1 directly, but if you swear and attack me personally then im also gonna do the same thing.
@Khumo since it seems that im the main topic of ur comment I never asked any1 to wish me happy birthday i just mentioned and admin n fundi decided to wish happy birthday.how is that a big deal kana?I think maybe i should stop blogging then maybe the blog will be more enjoyable.@ Julia ga kena di supporters mo blog i say what comes to mind.And maybe o right the blog is loosing the plot since its also becoming a platform for people to lie to the couple and also for people who have issues to voice them.
FACT IS: WE CAN NEVER EVER CHANGE ANY0NES WEDDING IT WAS THEIR DAY SPECIAL TO THEM REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER WE SAY AND DO…..phewwwwwwwwwww *wiping forehead*now can we please move on with life?…next wedding or topic please!!!
With all due respect K-fever, the world does not revolve around you. I did not direct my comment to you nor did I say you asked for birthday wishes. please know your place and sit down. We are tired of being bullied by you. What makes you think that you own this blog? just because you have been here longer than most of us does not make you boss. In fact, the best suggestion you’ve made so far is to stop bloggin, most of us would be glad to see you leave. I have no problem with people stating their opinions about wedding pictures.
I have no emotion towards that whatsoever. I however, have a major problem with cat fights that we see on a daily basis in this blog. Things that have no relation to the wedding pictures. the “voetsek”and what not, i mean really? are we not adults? I know you did not ask for birthday wishes and I never blamed you fofr getting them so can we step off that until admin chips in? my comment was directed to admin.
You might not want to accept the fact that people are afraid to post their weddings on this blog because of nasty comments, you might wanna attribute that to the winter and everything else but your comments but the fact is the blog is dying slowly and we should figure out why.
I wont be replying anymore to this subject. ADMIN, it is time to do what is best for the blog. If long-time bloggers are attached to the blog, then they should be loyal to it and wish for its survival.
P.S I will be posting my wedding soon in September, prepare all the horrible comments. Give me your best shot…watch this space. PEACE
Khumo point of correction i dont own the blog never will and dont wish to do that. The mere fact that people always care to chase after me actually just keeps me very entertained and shows that your blogging just wont be the same without my nasty evil comments?fr your info i stopped blooging for almost 2 years because of the censorship and the blog was becoming very dull with weddings that would have lyk 5 comments.point is people blog to get ideas and if people kip lying then we would be stuck with weddings that will destroy the wedding industry in SA.
Do give us the opportunity of commenting on your wedding as im sure its a gud 1.but come to think of it im starting to think maybe you wanna get rid of the bad flock of the blog so that in case your wedding is a disaster you wont have us to chop it apart.even if we do we wouldnt change a thing ryt????its your day and as long wena o le happy then screw us…now u take a chill pill, plan your wedding,post it n den re tswele pele ka lyf ne.Cant wait for September.
Khumo you go girl. This K-fEVER PERSON IS SO EGOCENTRIC THAT IT FORGETS THIS IS NOT HER OWN WEBSITE.
Really???wow thanx for da compliment im glad to see there are actually no weddings comin thru but im stil kipin da blog alive.ba bang ba re ke bitter ba bang ba re ke lefetwa…..aowa dis calls fr another re-negotiation of my fee.Avusa can we arrange another meeting here?im da lyf n sould of dis blog kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa……bathong ka le rata ne!!!
away with emotional bloggers, they should just let us be. Some of us have been blogging pre 2008 and we are still doing it and enjoying it. batho ba go tshwana le bo K-fever and Boss(wonder where she went to) make this blog enjoyable.
I did put up my wedding pictures, but under a different name, some comments were good and others a bit nasty, but at the end of the day, I managed to reflect back and laugh about everything, without causing drama.
Ke sure gore admin knows that, too much censoring causes the viewership to go down
I agree le nna i started blogging ka 2007 and dis emotional bloggers just ruin the blog.
Im happy for you Mmalelapa. I’m sure as well that “too much” censoring will reduce interaction with the blog. my suggestion was only focused on comments that are not related to the pictures. I made and example of batho ba ba attack each other ba rogana on the blog. that is what I dont wanna see. But negative comments about the pictures ga ke na bothata le tsona because that is what I have been using to plan my wedding. Comin soon on this blog…..Mr & Mrs Mosito.
@Khumo I cant wait dear….getting excited already. But where are Fundi’s wedding photos though?????????
hahahahhahahahhahah Miss K Fundi posted her pics long ago under her real name.Sorry cnt tell ena she will tell you….
Aowa K-fever kganthe why le dira soo mara. Fundi, your real name pleaseeeeeeee
@Fundi please hle….my email is firstname.lastname@example.org
mariga a a etse a fele, nna ke boregile.
@admin can’t you maybe go back to your archives and post some weddings from the past, just to keep us entertained, please please please admin….
@Mmalelapa maybe admin e sa ile diholidays lol
Bathong re kopa new wedding please iyooo ke tshaba go tsenya tsaaka
Nolita, di tsenye ka itse number one wa go criticize etlaba Kfever and her team, they think they run admin ya this wedding block…..mxm
I just love the way ppl lyk u jst make me so glorified..let me guess 1st comment u luk for is myn den u cn focus yours based on myn ne???????hahhahahhahahhahahhaha da more you shoot me down i just get worse.
ke tlo go rekela 50kg ya ppc cement o se kome den o be strong ne lovie….
Nolita di kenye pls dear
@Fundi thx loveeeeeeeeeee. Dilo tse ntle ka nnete
@Ornate tlogela batho ba bolele the way ba bonago ka gona. Like for me if something is not nice I will say it and if something is beautiful I will still say it. What matters most ke gore the groom and the bride will have enjoyed their beautiful day no matter what we say
@Nolitha dear, post them hle we need to see new stuff
@ Miss K, you may be right. This might be the only time that admin can take leave cause a go busy. Something else that I picked up, K-Fever is too quiet, e seng gore she went on holiday with admin? Go nkga lefotha mo….
@Ornate, o tla ba strong ne Lala….
kikikikikikikikiki me and admin are on leave sipping margaritas in the bahamas and shopping in milan…we wil see you in September upon our return!!!!!!!!
Admin… please please we need a wedding ao. winter is over now.
Aowa Admin, if this is a punishment, we have served the sentence. New weddings please, I know batho ba Sekhukhune ba a nyala so you cant say people ha ba sa nyala. Summer, winter, spring, autumn is the same ko bona. Pls
tltltltltltltltltltlt *death by batho ba Sekhukhune*
ke tshaba go bona……
most if the time I visit this blog just to read comments but now I see people are getting emotional Sure we’re all free & able to think what we want, and of course our rights as citizens include the holding of whichever opinion we prefer. weather you post your wedding on this blog u not doing anyone a favor IF YOU CANT STAND THE HEAT GET OUT OF THE KITCHIN . SA is a free country we all free to voice our opinion I want you to repeat after me nice and slow SA is a free…………
fresh photos please
Ao bathing kgale ke tsamaile but admin kante go etsagala eng naa? We need new photos please.
joooo im so bored ke kgale
How do I upload pics?
o_0 iyoooo even today there is still nothing. Ohk I guess admin e ngadile LOL
makoti ke skobo maan nna le ka nna la nthoga,ga ale mobe o mobe
i”m bored jooo niks even tday
hahahahhahahahahahaha le sa wara nna le admin we are comin bck next week.we had reached a deadlock on my contract cause i felt that with all this abuse im suffering they need to increase my fee of making the blog more controversial…..mwah missin u lots lovers n haters!!!!
Mara really Sowetan its been too long
Ijo! this is just tooooooooo much, we are suffering from wedding photos deprivation mo. Enough is enough, wena K-Fever and admin, re tla thoma go behaver bjanong, give us something please *crying*
People are afraid to send their wedding pictures because of the rude comments that get posted. Thanks to people like bo K-fever….
My wedding is coming on the 21 September, if you can guess where is it, then you are invited. If you can’t dont worry you will still see the pictures here on the blog…tltltltltllllll. oh and by the way, have you guys noticed that the blog no longer requires you to do some simple matha before you log your comment? it means the blog is no longer under administration….it is closed. Even if I post my pictures, they wont get published. kwaak
I mean simple **maths (not matha)…
Khumo, your wedding will be at Glenburn Lodge, West Rand. Naa, GamariSomething koLimpopo…
Lmao, Limpopo? I dnt even know the place….nice try Fundi.tltltlt
Bathong lona le tlisang di isues tsa lona mona ha re ya sheba lona diz blogg e etseditswe batho hore ba commente ka manyalo a rona eseng dithlapa tsena tsa lona come on guys plz behave yrself. ha le etse hantle le ya bora man.
Ok back to manyalong a batho nna i igree with y guys if ntho empe just talk hore ba latelang ba tsebe ntho entle le empe. anyway lenyalo la lona iz not bad but for me i dont like colour combination colour tsa lona dikopakopane ha di smart.
Guys, I’m 2 days awsy from being Mrs Mosito.
All the best Glo! Remember to enjoy your day as much as you can. It won’t come back, so create memories. Good luck and please share pics!
Goodluck lady and enjoy ur day to the fullest. May God bless
Gloria, invite God into your marriage and all the best with the wedding. Hope we are in for a treat, and that yours will be a wedding to reckon with…. Few things to stay away from on the day, no sunglasses when taking pictures, no artificial flowers, try and match the bridesmaids hairstyles and accessories as much as possible, no snacks or diplate tsa dikuku on the table to enhance the decor or go tsamaisa nako ya lunch . Remember this is you day and its your way or the highway, as Fundi has said, create memories that you will cherish forever.
As for admin, if this is a punishment, re utlwile bathong.
At least re arabe, re itse gore is the blog, still on or what.
Thanks Mmalelapa, I had a great time on my wedding day. A few things did not go according to plan but the main agenda of the day was achieved. I will post pictures as soon as my photographer has made them available. I cant wait for everyone’s comments. I already know from your advice that younare going to dislike thecsnacks I had on my tables but it aint a train smash. Love you guys
ok guys enough is enough i think we might as well put our differences aside and petition sowetan to bring back the blog.I have been trying to get hold of admin for a while now to no avail.can we petition to bring it back???what do you say bloggers?
Message from Sowetan:ok all i managed to finally get hold of Sowetan online team.Admin has left and they were sorting out some technical issues with the blog so that’s why both the wedding and baby steps blogs have been so quiet.So they ask that we should bear with them and in few weeks we will have wedding and im sure they will keep us busy as im sure the wedding are pilling up!!!….
Ao bathong K-Fever, thank you so much for taking the time and making an effort to check what is going on. We will still be here, pulling our hair, wondering what was happening, if it was not for you. Thank you, thank you, thank you….
You were quiet for some time, where did you dissappear to, will like to meet the crazy K-Fever one day….
Hi Mmalelapa was on sick leave since 08 August that is why I was responding once in a while….Dont worry maybe Sowetan will arrange a cocktail party for us one day hahahhahaha…
Hawu bantu, can we please see the decor.
Thanks K for feedback. How I pray weeks, will be a week at least – not more. We really deprived!!!
How did it go with you Khumo?
Good job K-Fever, thanks for the feed back!! hao ne se re maketse hore ho etsahalang!!
Thanx K-Fever 4 yo efforts, much appreciated. Huuuuuuu mara “weeks” le bona mara #whew#
Bathong whats happening with Sowetan…..gape now it has been long without seeing new wedding.
Ive never been hooked on a blog like this,you all are special cases
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